My son received a chef hat, apron, and oven mitts for
Christmas from his Nana and Pop Pop. I assumed these would be items to hang
alongside his other dress up clothes so that when he is tired of pretending to be
a monkey, dog, dragon, or Yoda, he can be a chef! I don’t think I realized at
the time that this gift might encourage actual cooking. Maybe some pretend play with Play Dough, but surely not REAL cooking. One day, I
asked him if he wanted to learn how to make cookies. He was so excited and we
quickly pulled out the apron and hat. It was a huge hit and a great bonding
experience. A few weeks later, he helped me cook Pasta Chu Chu for dinner. He was so proud
of himself and how he had helped in the kitchen. Last night, we pulled the big bench over to
the counter again so he could help make Stromboli. I figured it would keep
his mind and hands busy while I get something done. It gave us a chance to talk
about all kinds of things. Two ½ teaspoons would be the same as 1 teaspoon.
What is an onion? What does oregano smell like? How can we stir ingredients
together? He is learning so much and I love the time we get to share together.
He now has his own whisk and spatula (with cute little pigs on them) that are
just his size! He is getting to take ownership in the food he eats and actually
seems more willing to eat new meals when he has helped prepare them. Amazing!
Today, I asked my boy what he would want to be when he grows up. We talked about
the things he likes to do and one of the things he was excited about what being
a chef. In that moment, it hit me for the first time- will his food allergies
keep him from a dream career? In our kitchen, it’s safe. He can’t fail here. He can’t get hurt (unless he sticks his hand in the mixer, which I have already told him would be a bad idea). Yes, I know he will probably want to be a chef
for two days, and then it’s off to the next thing, but the question is still
important. How will his allergies hold him back from what he wants to do in the
future? This thought brings tears to my eyes. This crushes me. I hope and pray that whatever passions the Lord has
instilled in my children will be things they can accomplish despite their allergies.
One thing I know
for sure, I will never be the one to kill their dreams. For however long my
son is interested in cooking, I will teach him all that I
can and nurture that time. Whether he just becomes a husband someday who knows how to cook his family
a meal or he opens his own thriving restaurant, every minute spent with
him will be worth it. I’m learning that cooking with my 2 year old is a huge
blessing. He is learning to listen carefully, follow instructions, and see a
meal emerge from ingredients. I am learning it’s ok that the kitchen gets
a little dirty and it's alright if it takes a little longer to get supper on the table.When I asked my son if he might want
to be a chef someday, he replied with an enthusiastic, “UH HUH!” Then, I said, “You
could open your own restaurant where everyone could eat…even people with food
allergies, like you!” “UH HUH!”
